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Writer's pictureJenny Grimminck

What Makes You Feel Badass in the Kitchen? Channeling Passion and Precision for a Sensual Experience

Updated: Aug 29

For all the culinary artists, food savants, and cuisine connoisseurs out there this one's for you!

Whether it’s your profession or your passion, when you step into the kitchen, you’re in your element, fully yourself, commanding your domain. The kitchen isn’t just a room; it’s your zone of genius, and it deserves to be the sexiest, most seductive space in your home. Let’s dig deeper, shall we? 🥰


a sexy, badass chef with tattoos, cooking up a storm, fully in control and loving every minute of it.
Image: Having fun with AI

A chef isn’t just someone who makes food—they’re an artist, a master of their craft. They take us on journeys that linger long after the last bite, stirring memories of places visited, romantic escapades, and unforgettable moments shared. The artistry in crafting a great meal is like the artistry in great sex—an adventurous spirit, passion, timing, respect, trust, and love.


Watching a chef handle the finest ingredients is like watching someone caress skin. Sometimes it’s soft and tender, a touch that teases and tantalizes. Other times, it’s aggressive, rigorous, in complete control. When you taste something created with that kind of passion and intensity, your whole body lights up. It’s sheer magic. That, my friends, is pure BADASSERY.



The Feeling of Home


Now, let’s talk about your kitchen and how it contributes to the romance in your home. We’ve all seen those steamy scenes in movies where someone is pushed up against the counter or hoisted onto the island for a moment of passion. Sometimes, you just can’t wait! Wouldn’t it be incredible if your kitchen was also an erotic environment that enhances your pleasure and deepens your connection with your partner(s)? And seriously, there’s nothing sexier than a clunky hood fan drowning out your conversation, right? Lol, obviously, I’m kidding. So, what’s the alternative?


A Day in the Life of You


Do you cook at the end of the day to unwind, or is the kitchen reserved for those weekend nights when you can let loose with your favorite weirdo on a date night in? Maybe you’ve got peace of mind knowing your private chef (let’s call him Carter) has everything he needs to surprise you with an amazing meal when you’re not up for cooking. A well-designed, functional kitchen is everything because a pretty kitchen that doesn’t support your lifestyle is just useless. Let’s avoid that fiasco!

Your Kitchen Must-Haves


Let’s create a culinary haven where you might not even make it past the main course because, let’s be real, you or your partner are bound to become the dessert. 😉 The options are only limited by your imagination—or in this case, mine!

  • Quiet appliances that don’t kill the mood

  • Multiple dishwashers

  • Top professional appliances with all the bells and whistles

  • Music or podcast sound system

  • TV or recipe video viewing while you cook

  • Wine storage and display that’s a visual treat

  • A second kitchen/scullery for catering or Carter’s magic

  • Butler’s pantry/hidden pantry

  • Strategic sink placement/multiple sinks/sink style

  • Cozy breakfast nook

  • Indoor/outdoor wall-to-wall doors to the outdoor kitchen

  • Proper knife storage

  • Comfortable seating where your lover can linger


Research, Research, Research


Understanding your needs and lifestyle is crucial to designing your dream kitchen with romance in mind. Here’s what I’m digging into:

  • Why are chefs so damn sexy?

  • Do you prep or cook together?

  • How often do you entertain, and for how many guests?

  • Where will you dine? Island, dining room, or living room coffee table?

  • What does luxury mean to you?

  • How will you move through the room?

  • How large does the kitchen need to be for all prep, cooking, and entertaining?

  • How will the space appeal to your senses?

  • Where and how will I create storage and display for your wine collection?

  • How tall are you?

  • Do you want the lightbulbs visible or hidden?

  • What’s the view from the windows?

  • How much cleaning/maintenance do you want for yourself or your staff?

  • Do you have a cooking uniform or outfit?

  • After work, do you head straight to your walk-in closet to change?

  • Are you cooking solo while your partner eagerly waits, or do you cook together?

  • Are you right or left handed?

  • Do you have sensitivities or requirements?

  • How will I incorporate your sex life into the kitchen design?


Appealing To Your Senses


Food is a love language—it engages all five senses, builds connections, and expresses love. Designing for the senses means planning your environment with intention, aiming to evoke a visceral reaction.


 

Lighting that flatters – Colours that captivate – Textures that envelop 

Scents that entice – Sounds that stimulate


 

SIGHT: Dark and moody fixtures and finishes, the sexy reflection of light on surfaces, and the sight of you commanding the kitchen.


TOUCH: The brush of your partner’s hand, cabinet hardware that fits just right, and the feel of the flooring under your feet—whether you’re barefoot, in slippers, or shoes.


SCENT: Fresh ingredients, the aroma of your morning coffee beckoning you, and the intoxicating scent of your arousal pheromones.


SOUND: The rhythmic chopping on a wood cutting board, the sizzle from your indoor grill, and those seductive moans as you taste your culinary creations.


Considerations To Ponder


How do your routines impact the design of your kitchen during the week versus the weekend? Are you whipping up coffee after your morning workout while Carter prepares your breakfast and lunch? Do you cook to relax after work, or is dinner already waiting for you?


Weekends are your time to shine in the kitchen. With no staff, you’ve got the house all to yourselves. Even though your staff is discreet, there’s something magical about truly being alone with your sweetie pie.


Do we design an open kitchen or one tucked behind doors? Double islands—one for seating and one for prep? And let’s talk about height—can your partner touch the floor when bent over the island, or do they need a step stool? 


What do you see through the windows? Nature, cityscape, or something else entirely? Can we move an existing window during renovation? And are you staying in your home during the chaos of renovation?


Finally, how much cleaning and maintenance do you want, whether for yourself or your staff? Maybe you’ve got a cooking outfit—are you heading to your walk-in closet first, or do we need a changing room just off the kitchen?


Cooking for your sweetheart is such a turn-on! Whether you’re alone in the kitchen, your partner is on their way home, or they’re watching you, it’s all about creating that sultry environment. Do you get a little kinky in the kitchen? Are you getting flirtatious come-hither looks from your Mistress? The pot of boiling water isn’t the only steamy thing in the room.


Turning Up the Heat


The step stool isn’t just for reaching into higher cabinets—it’s an invitation to play. Imagine the possibilities when that simple tool becomes part of the experience, giving you and your partner the perfect height for those moments when the kitchen becomes more than just a place to cook. Whether it’s a playful lift or a way to bring your fantasies to life, that step stool adds a whole new dimension to your kitchen, turning ordinary tasks into extraordinary experiences. It’s all about creativity and connection, transforming every inch of the space into an opportunity for intimacy.


But where will you store it, tuck it away? Thankfully, there’s a solution for that! Built into the toe kick, the Space Step acts as a multifunctional tool in the kitchen. It’s not just a step stool; it’s a secret storage wonder. What if you enjoy kneeling? The step can be moved back, revealing a hidden compartment below—the most amazing spot to store pillows for your comfort during oral sex. And that's not all; this clever design doubles as a discreet space to store toys too, keeping everything you need right at hand without disrupting the aesthetic of your space.


Now, where to put the lube? In the heat of the moment, you don’t want to run upstairs to grab the bottle. That’s why we’ll have a designated spot for it, cleverly concealed yet easily accessible. Whether it’s a hidden back panel in an upper cabinet or a secondary drawer compartment that unlocks with a push of a button, the possibilities are endless. Dr. Emily’s dream is lube on every nightstand, and mine is in every room! Why compromise when you can have both functionality and passion seamlessly integrated into your home?


Create extra storage space behind toe kicks, provide easy access to wall cabinets, step stool in kitchen
SPACE STEP from Blum

You're Confident In Your Sex Life. Now, Be Confident In Your Home!


Your home plays a crucial role in setting the mood, and it should be a seamless extension of your lifestyle. Does the idea of explaining your kinks and desires to a designer give you the heebie-jeebies? If only there were someone who specializes in creating intimate interiors for badass soulmates—and is also pretty awesome. Well, have no fear—Jenny is here! Cue Wonder Woman pose 🖤


Working with me allows you to explore and express your relationship in bold, exciting ways you’ve always dreamed of—or didn’t even know were possible! Fill out the design inquiry to see if White Wave Design is the dream come true match for your full-scale renovation or luxury new construction project. My designs celebrate all relationships, from the sweet to the spicy, including kink and BDSM lifestyles.


Let’s be badass together,

Jenny 💀

Principal Creative Genius & Badass Designer


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